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1、离婚后女人通常比男人好过得多英文阅读及翻译离婚后女人通常比男人好过得多英文阅读及翻译Womenarebetteratbeatingmarriagebreak-upbluesArecentsurveyhighlightedthefactthatwomentendtofaremuchbetterthanmenafterdivorce.Thesurveyrevealedthatmensufferfarmoreinemotionaltermsthanwomenandaremuchmorelikelytoletthemselvesgoandnoteatproperly.Intheyearafterdiv
2、orce,48percentofmendescribethemselvesasfeelingverylonely,comparedwithjust35percentofwomen.Menoftenbearthefinancialbruntofdivorce,too,findingthemselvessupportingthefamilytheyhaveleftbehindandsomehowhavingtofinanceanewroofovertheirownhead,too.Iftheymeetsomeonenew,theyarethenfacedwiththeprospectofsuppo
3、rtingtheirnewpartnerandanyadditionalchildren.Women,thesurveystated,finditmucheasiertozmoveon,andleavethepastbehind,andhaveafarwideremotionalsupportnetworkoffriends.Asaresult,itisperhapsnosurprisethatmorewomenthaneverareinitiatingdivorce.ThelatestUKfiguresfor2009showthat68percentofthe113,949divorcepr
4、oceedingsthatyearwerestartedbywomen.Morelong-termmarriagesareending,toodivorceinitiatedbywomenintheage45-plusbracketrosebyanastonishing30percentinthetenyearsbetween1997and2007.1.eadingdivorcelawyer,AdamWitkover;ofBrossBennettSolicitorsinLondon,saysmanywomenfeeltherushofexcitementafterleavingtheirhus
5、bands.Hesays:Inmyexperience,womenseemtocopemuchbetteremotionallywithdivorce.Theyhaveawidernetworkoffriends,finditmucheasiertotalkabouttheiremotionsthanmen,andalthoughtheyarenotalwaysbetterofffinancially,theyoftenusedivorceasthespringboardtoanewcareer.Men,ontheotherhand,finditmuchhardertoexpresshowth
6、eyfeel,andareoftenmuchmorebitteraboutthesplitthanwomen.Theyseemtofindithardertoletgoofthepast/Menalsotendtostrugglewiththedomesticsideoflivingontheirowndoingtheirownwashing,shoppingandcookingwhereasforwomen,thatisabreeze.Iftherearechildreninvolved,womentendtobeawardedthefamilyhome,sotheirgenerallife
7、styleisnotdramaticallyaffected.Men,ontheotherhand,oftenstrugglewiththeturntheirliveshavetaken,especiallyiftheyfindthemselvesmovingintoasmallflatorevenbackinwiththeirparents.近日的一项调查突显了一个事实,就是离婚后女人通常比男人好过得多。调查揭示,男性在情感上比女性遭受的痛苦要大得多,而且男性更可能自暴自弃和胡乱进食。在离婚后的日子里,48%的男性称自己感到十分孤独,相比之下,只有35%的女性是这样。男性通常还要遭受离婚带来
8、的经济冲击,他们不但要支撑之前的家庭,还要承担自己新立门户的开支。如果他们找到了新欢,他们可能还要抚养新伴侣和她带来的小孩。调查称,离婚后女性继续前进、忘掉过去比男性容易得多,而且女性所拥有的能提供情感支持的朋友圈也比男性大得多。所以,如今提出离婚的女性比以往任何时候都多大概也就不足为奇了。2009年英国最新数据显示,2009年的113949起离婚诉讼中,有68%是女性提出的。此外,更多的长久婚姻正走向尽头一一45岁以上女性提出的.离婚在1997年到2007年这十年间增加了30%,这很惊人。伦敦布罗斯?贝奈特律师事务所的资深离婚律师亚当?维特考佛说,许多女性在离开丈夫后感受到了涌动的激情。他说
9、:根据我的经验,女人们似乎能更好地接受和应对离婚。她们的朋友圈子更大,因此要倾诉心情也比男性容易得多。另外,尽管女性的经济状况并不一定会因离婚而变好,但她们常常借助离婚这一跳板来开启新的职业道路。另一方面,男人要表达情绪则比女人难得多,而且离婚对于男人通常也更痛苦。要他们忘掉过去似乎更难。此外,男人独自(生活)还要艰难应对家务事一一自己洗衣、购物和做饭,而这对于女人来说,就是小菜一碟。如果离婚时双方已有子女,一般会把房子判给女性,这样女性的生活方式总体上不会受到太大影响。而男性则通常必须艰难地应对生活的剧变,特别是搬进小公寓甚至搬回去和父母同住的男性。Vocabulary:highlight:使突出fare:过活;进展brunt:冲击,撞击proceeding:诉讼bracket:类别,等级段springboard:跳板;出发点breeze:轻而易举的事